| Part 3 - Women Want
to be Heard. Guys, take notes!
Women want to talk.
Women build relationships by freely talking about
their everyday trivia and troubles. "I will tell you
about my day and my troubles, and you may tell me about
yours so that we can be really close in our relationship.
Women like relationships.
When a woman tries to build a relationship
with a man by talking about her personal life and problems,
most men don't understand what is happening. Men hear
the woman's problems as a cry for help, so men respond
with solutions on how to fix the woman's problems. This
makes the woman feel as if he is trying to put her down.
Women are not broken.
Women do not see a relationship developing
with the man who wants to - fix her problems. Women
don't want to be fixed they want to be heard and form
a close relationship! What a woman really needs before
opening up completely to a man is a feeling of security,
a solid relationship. In her mind this is best achieved
through a close companionship with her man. Unfortunately
most men don't listen and that is a big problem
in relationships. So guys shut up and listen and don't
disagree with anything. You don't have to say anything
just give her a cuddle, show her you care.
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